Author: Amy Alkon

The missing wink

I\’m a 34-year-old woman, worried I\’m giving 1950s dating advice to my teenage niece by telling her I wouldn\’t ask a man out. When she wanted me to explain, the best I could come up with was that I want a guy...

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Malcolm in the Middle Ages

My fiance and I are having a costume wedding. We thought having everyone dress Renaissance/ medieval would be a fun alternative to stuffy black-tie. The problem is, my fiancé wants his brother to be his best man, but the guy...

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Love you just the way you were

I was attracted to my girlfriend of six months before I ever saw her, during the three months we communicated by phone and e-mail for business. When we met, I discovered she\’s very beautiful — with one drawback: her...

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To leech according to her needs

I\’m a 25-year-old guy making OK money but going broke thanks to my 21-year-old live-in girlfriend. She\’s chronically unemployed and aspires to be a \”housewife.\” She does stuff like spending her share...

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Who wears the panties in the family?

My husband of five months is a wonderful man, but he does something kind of different I wanted your advice on: He sometimes likes to wear my panties. He swears he\’s not gay; he just says they feel really good on his skin...

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UPCOMING COMMUNITY EVENTS

  1. Ojai Landscape Through the Eye of the Artist

    March 18 @ 8:00 am - May 31 @ 5:00 pm
  2. Ojai Art Center’s 42nd Annual Art in the Park

    May 25 @ 10:00 am - May 26 @ 5:00 pm
  3. WEEKLY SOUND BATH – THOUSAND OAKS

    May 29 @ 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm
  4. WEEKLY SOUND BATH – THOUSAND OAKS

    May 31 @ 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm
  5. INTRODUCTION TO ANTIQUE CLOCK COLLECTING, MAINTENANCE & REPAIR WORKSHOP IN SANTA PAULA

    June 1 @ 8:30 am - 4:00 pm
  6. Fun Arts and Entertainment for All Ages at Studio Channel Islands Arts Alive Festival

    June 1 @ 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
  7. Studio Channel Islands Arts Alive

    June 1 @ 10:00 am - 5:00 pm
  8. Help a Horse Day at California Coastal Horse Rescue

    June 1 @ 11:00 am - 4:00 pm
  9. The 2019 OakHeart Country Music Festival

    June 1 @ 1:00 pm - 10:00 pm
  10. 4th Annual Ojai Blues Fest

    June 1 @ 1:00 pm - 10:00 pm